Hi George,
I think I've been sucked into this before. I've got no experience of SQF but I believe they use the term validation in an incorrect way (wrt Codex definitions) and actually mean verification.
To thoroughly close the loop, using codex definitions here, 'true' validation could include:
Consultation with industry guidelines and best practice (consider trade associations, retailer standards etc.)
Reference to the law and government sources, e.g. in the UK the FSA produces guidelines for food handlers on illness reporting and exclusion periods
Ask for advice from industry bodies (e.g. Campden or the Canadian equivalent) on what micro loading on hands is 'acceptable' and unlikely to cause issues
Information from your soap suppliers that their products kill or remove the pathogens of concern in your field.
You'd then need documented training in the personal hygiene standards you've set.
To then verify, that could include
Audit
Review of customer complaints
Routine swabbing (a few a month)