When I were a lad not so long ago…my father got a weekly wage packet, with real money in it. The money he earned had to last a whole week (get that!) and my mother made sure that it did. My dad actually got weekly spends (an allowance) from my mum.
My mother kept a handbag in her wardrobe which acted like an accounts filing cabinet, in it she kept all the bills gas, electric, water, rates etc. She put an amount in each envelope every week to ensure that when the 'due date' came around there would be exactly enough to pay the bill.
In those days we didn't have a car and it was a bit embarrassing getting on the number 20 bus with our shopping bags after we'd been to Crazy Cuts. It was even more embarrassing getting on the bus with suitcases when we were off on our annual holiday to Prestatyn holiday camp. It sometimes grated especially when my friends Dad purchased a brand new Lada. But it wasn't too bad, and at the end of the day my two brothers and I were very happy and we never went short of fruit salads or black jacks.
Apart from the mortgage on a nice semi-detached house in a nice area my mother and father were completely debt free. My mother didn't work (outside of the home) and my father was a semi-skilled fitter at a manufacturing firm. So how did they manage to stay out of debt?
I have no idea…
What I do know is that attitudes to debt have changed dramatically since the 1970's. Credit is very easy to get these days, in fact I heard yesterday that Barclays have been issuing credit cards to Big Issue Sellers with no fixed abode or ability to pay. How low can they go?
I'm totally different to my parents, I'm in debt and perhaps wrongly and maybe irresponsibly I don't really care…because it's normal. On the bus with bags…not while I've got plastic in my pocket mate!
The reason for writing this is because I'm fed up being bombarded and bullied by the vultures. After a while the constant haranguing GET'S MY GOAT!!!. Especially on top of the 'No Win No Pay' Accident Claims blah, blah, blah - but that's another story.
Look I'm in debt and I don't care, so leave me alone and stop reminding me all the time.
You will find some contact details for FREE debt advice below the articles.
Apologies for the excessive use of emoticons - but that's me.
Regards,
Simon
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